this is a post where i ask for help
- my name is elie i’m 21 years old white queer trans mentally ill and autistic
- my parents are getting a divorce
- they both want me to move in with them
- i don’t want to move in with either of them. i love them both dearly and they’ve done a lot for me but:
- my mother is not very accepting of my sexuality and not at all accepting of my gender, she condescends me and my interests constantly, and she’s very controlling and generally mean to me and everyone else
- my father is absolutely horrible to me whenever my mental illness makes itself known, he calls me stupid and other names and he never does anything around the house bc he thinks it’s not his place and he has serious anger issues
- i’m tired of living in an environment like that and it’s just getting worse as they’re getting more stressed and angry over the split
- i’m also trying to go back to school. they’re both planning to live in places where i would not be able to do this there. all i would be able to do is live with them and work all the time, the same thing i am doing now. i have been trying to save to go back to school, or to be more specific, to cover living expenses so i can go back to school, but the more i think about it the more i realize that the best choice for me would be to move in that direction now and then gradually ease into going back to school (like maybe take a class or two at a time)
- i have some money saved but it’s nowhere near what i need to move out and not be totally fucked if i can’t get a good job right away, and i’m not going to be so optimistic as to just assume that’s going to happen for me
- i’m trying to move out as soon as possible. i’m working almost every day (last week i worked 48 hours, the week before i worked 51) at a job that is incredibly draining for me, both physically, because i am there for 8-13 hours busting ass on the days that i work, and emotionally, because i don’t have time for myself or to spend time with friends or see anyone other than the people i work with/for, and because i’m a server and i honestly have a lot of difficulty with it bc i am mentally ill. there is a lot of short term memory stress and general workplace stress is very high because i work at a place where the guests own the restaurant and have been losing money there lately and a lot of them take it out on the employees, being rude or downright hateful and abusive.
- any help would be appreciated
- donations to my paypal (which is firstname.lastname@example.org) (there is also a button on my page) could expedite this process and help me afford things like cups and silverware and towels and pans and cleaning supplies and shit which i don’t currently have my own sets of and cannot take with me from my current living arrangement
- also if you have any advice/suggestions for moving out or living on your own i’d love to hear them because i know nothing about how to do this and i’m honestly fucking petrified
- also also if you live in jacksonville fl i’d like to make friends with people… i know literally nobody there and it’s really scary. i’d especially love to meet other queer/trans ppl bc being able to talk to ppl that understand and support me is rly important to me
- basically any help at all would be incredible even if all u can do is signal boost this
- thank you
amalur au is the only au for me rn lmao ugh all of this is unfinished or just design scribbles
i did not post a single piece of art in august or september
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i got angry and made a thing.
reblogging because wage slave solidarity is a thing. appreciate and respect the people who work the jobs that help you function day to day.
in most stores the speed score is only active when the transaction is in scanning mode and has not been totaled. not every cashier minds if you take the time to get change, but you can HAVE THE CHANGE IN A CHANGE BAGGIE OR CONVENIENT POCKET and not at the BOTTOM OF YOUR BLACK HOLE OF A PURSE.
HAVE YOUR MONEY READY WHEN YOU ARE REQUIRED TO PAY PLEASE! speed scores are important, but for example if you are in the speedy lane and there is a long line behind you, other customers are likely to blame the cashier for the delay, and not you, even though your purse digging is the culprit. they will curse and complain and sarcastically whine about how they “thought this was the speedy lane” and it is incredibly frustrating to a cashier who is just trying to do their job.
also, DO NOT COMPLAIN TO THE CASHIER OR FRONT END SUPERVISOR WHEN THERE ARE NOT ENOUGH CASHIERS. IT IS NOT THEIR FAULT! cashiers call in unexpectedly, managers don’t hire enough, and sometimes district managers will go so far as to prevent store managers from hiring more because they “can’t afford it.” it’s bullshit, and it is not their fault. please don’t take it out on the cashier or front end supervisor. they have no power to change these things, they are only able to work with what resources they are given.
"I think the act of carrying something that is normally found in our bedroom out into the light is supposed to mirror the way I’ve talked to the media and talked to different news channels, etc," Emma continues in the full video which you can watch here.
So, I just want to go into HOW MUCH Columbia and the NYPD has failed, and revictimized, Emma Sulkowitz.
In her school hearing, Sulkowitz ” had to explain to the three administrators on the panel how anal rape worked. She told them she had been hit across the face, choked and pinned down, but, she said, one still seemed confused about how it was possible for someone to penetrate her there without lubricant. Sulkowicz said she had to draw them a diagram.”
"Her best friend was meant to be at the hearing; Sulkowicz had chosen her as her one “supporter.” But her friend was kicked out of that role for talking about the case, according to Sulkowicz, in violation of the university’s confidentiality policy. As punishment, her friend was also put on probation and made to write two reflection papers: one from the perspective of Sulkowicz and another from the accused."
FROM THE PERSPECTIVE
OF HER FRIEND’S RAPIST
- Two other women at Columbia have accused this guy of sexual assault/rape. But he’s been found not responsible in all instances, and is still on campus
- When she went to the police, one officer said: “”You invited him into your room. That’s not the legal definition of rape.”
- Another officer told her friends, who came with her: ““For every single rape I’ve had, I’ve had 20 that are total bull——,” he added. “It’s also my type of job to get to the truth. If that means being harsh about it, that’s what I do.”
I want to set literally everything on fire.
there is a lotta shit i’ve never posted i have really been neglecting my blog and my art in general? lately it has just been personal stuff but here’s some that i like enough to share!
massive amount of face practice based on this old meme thing http://yuyureference.tumblr.com/post/32434646857/art-basics-meme
idk if anybody can tell what my two favorite face parts are to draw or not lmao
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Hey guys, I’ve been getting a lot of new followers recently and I wanna say hi and thank you for following me! My name is Tera but you can call me Left! I’m 24 years old and I’m living in LA with my best friend/fiancee Marcia. <3 I work outside of the arts industry, but drawing is something I dedicate almost all of my free time to. It’s so incredible to be able to share my art with people, thank you all so much!
However, with recent life events our finances have been put under considerable strain and I might be coming up on a span of a few weeks during which I won’t be able to draw much. After my hours at my old job were severely cut, I had to find a second full-time job. I was finally able to land one, but literally on my first day of work my fiancee was in a car accident with an 18-wheeler which fled the scene, leaving us to foot the bill.
She hasn’t really been able to talk much about the accident because it was pretty traumatic, so I’ve abstained from mentioning it until now. We’re extremely lucky she didn’t wind up in the hospital, but more than $10,000 of damage was still done to her car. Thanks to the miracle of car insurance, we didn’t have to pay the full amount, but over the course of dealing with the accident we’ve lost about $1,000.
With my job I know that we’ll at least squeak through rent, but there are other things right now that I can’t afford that I really need to pay (like my health insurance). I work full days, with about 3 hours of commuting PER DAY on top. Between that and the stress of deciding between eating lunch and saving for bills, it’s really hard to draw or work on projects.
If you guys are FEELIN THE LOVE, we’d both be so grateful if you’d consider helping us out! Here are a few ways you (yes you!) can help us not panic and die:
- Sketchbooks: I’ve got discounted sketchbooks up for sale via Gumroad and Sellfy! Gumroad takes credit cards and Sellfy takes paypal.
- Con Prints: As i mentioned the other day, my Storenvy is now open for business again! All of my shipping materials arrived today and any orders placed will be shipped in a timely manner. If you buy something through my storenvy, email me a screencap of your receipt at email@example.com and I can include a free doodle of whatever you request. For an extra $5 donation via paypal, I can do a more polished sketch and pack it along with your purchase!
- Commissions: I only have a few commissions on my plate right now (all of which have significant progress completed) so I’m comfortable taking on more. Since we’re in kind of dire need, I’d be happy to do some sketch/ink commissions like this for ~$10 or ink/marker drawings like this for ~$15-$20. Of course, I’m happy to discuss more expensive commissions. Either way, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and we can talk things over.
- Donations: I know some people just would rather donate than choose something like a commission or print or something. I feel bad about not giving anything concrete in return, but I understand that some people prefer that. If you do feel like donating, thank you so much for your generosity, it means the world to me! My paypal is email@example.com if you’d like to donate.
- Signal Boosting: I know a lot of people are in tight spots just like we are! I understand and I hope none of you beat yourselves up for not being able to donate/buy/etc. If you’d still like to help, signal boosting would be very kind of you.
Thank you all so much for your kindness and understanding and for sticking with us through this stuff!
GOD AT LEAST THE DESCRIPTION IS COOL, make ur own headcanon design >:3
YEAH I MEAN I DON’T MIND THE SPACE STUFF I think I probably got it because I made some choices regarding earth and time abilities so. we’ll see if I ever actually get around to it o(-<
Your result for The Fantasy RPG Class Test…
13% Strength, 5% Bloodlust, 37% Intelligence, 63% Spirit, 38% Vitality and 25% Agility!
Using a powerful and ancient form of combat, Star Gliders appear to effortlessly slide across the ground as they move and attack. In fact, Star Gliders are actually hovering slightly above the surface of the ground using their powerful mastery over electromagnetism. Since their feet never touch the ground, the movements of Star Gliders are nearly impossible to predict, making Star Gliders extremely formidable adversaries. By using powerful rune magic to control electromagnetic fields, Star Gliders can manipulate terrestrial and cosmic plasmas! In addition, they have limited control over metals, and will often use magnetism to create shields and weapons out of any metals in the surrounding areas. Occasionally, Star Gliders may be skilled at controlling the energy within their own bodies, and they’ll use that skill to undergo various minor transformations. For example, some Star Gliders possess the ability to transform and harden their own skin, making them more resistant to damage. Other Star Gliders who aren’t skilled with transformation can simply condense metallic particles around their body to form a strong protective layer and enhance their defenses. Star Gliders are also quite skilled with powerful elemental magic and light magic, making them even more dangerous opponents in battle! By combining this incredibly powerful magic with their superlative combat skills, Star Gliders can release powerful blasts of electromagnetic energy, making them almost impossible to best in battle.
Congratulations on achieving this powerful class!
This is a powerful mixed class that requires at least three variables to be extremely high.
You have not mastered any Hidden Power granted by the Genie.
hey today is the last day of the steam summer sale and it’s also my birthday and for my birthday I want everyone to buy this game and help it get updates owo !! it’s called BANISHED go check it out it’s $10 right now! http://store.steampowered.com/app/242920/